I purchased my own helmets and installed J&M headsets in them myself. They have worked well for three years and I only had to replace one cord. That one was on my helmet and the cord got severely stretched when I was in a wreck two years ago.
A few of my friends also like the Nolan helmets that come with headsets factory installed. But I've never used one, just passing that on.
MRRKO, Buckeye Rally is this weekend in Xenia Ohio if you want to ride on down and check out headsets. Sierra Electronics should be there and they are a great bunch of folks who wouldn't steer you wrong. Also you should be able to find a bunch of bling for your ride and find a bunch of friendly folks to talk to that can answer just about any questions you would have.
Do you belong to GWRRA? They are offering a free trail memberships right now, go to gwrra.org and click on the trail membership in the lower right corner to fill out the info.
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