Gary you should have no problem with the relay you ordered provided the Contact ratings are the same value or reasonably close to the OEM. When all is said a relay is nothing more than the proverbial light switch on your wall. So If you checked that I'm sure you will be good & you would have saved money that you can use for Gas.
Well I put the relay part #PL RY1 in and so far it has worked. I took it on a 130 mile round trip yesterday and a 170 mile trip today. No Problems The relay cost 10 dollars compared to 40 from mother honda.