I realize my first post was uncalled for and I am sorry.
But I would like to add something to this that I feel will help you stay safe.
If for any reason you miss a shift or feel like you are in the wrong gear? Unless there is a mechanical failure, never ever pull off the road until you are focused 100% and have a safe place to do so.
Best thing to do is just pull in the clutch and shift up once more, if the RPM's feel good and it feels like you are in the right gear just keep on going. If the RPM's are too high, up shift again, if the engine feels like it is bogging, down shift.
I can think of no reason to ever pull off the road and endanger your self when you miss a shift. Telling me you have to pull off and "Start over" tells me that you are not very comfortable shifting gears on a bike and sounds like not a lot of experience. You need to have confidence out there on the road with a bike.
If you get in a sticky situation and do not have the reflex skills needed in an emergency situation, you are going to wind up a statistic.
I thought long and hard about posting this again but I had to. It sounds to me like you need a little help and like it or not, I am putting my 2 cents in.
I have been riding off and on for most of my adult life, I am 45. But I still find my self lacking in the skill department in certain areas. I still have a lack of confidence in pulling a U-turn on the Wing for example! I just can bring my self to lay the big Girl over and "Commit" to the U-turn. Once your in a tight U-turn, there are only 2 ways out, either 180 degrees and on your way or, a few degrees less and on the ground!
My point is, we all still have the capacity to learn. None of us are perfect and none of us know everything. I would hope that if someone see's me doing something and it's obvious I don't know what I am doing? I hope they try to help me understand and help me to better my self. Especially when it comes to motorcycles.
What I am trying to get at is there is no shame in asking for advice and a man should not let his pride get in the way of an education and opportunities to sharpen skills or learn new ones!